
I’ve set several intertwined goals this past year, all related to rekindling wonder and connection. More time outside, more books on paper, more art and poetry… and sometimes these activities come bundled into one handy package!
The new book Ocean of Stars is composed of lyrical writing by Azita Ardakani and glorious illustration by Rebecca Rebouche (pictured above). At a book event this week, Azita noted that it is so unlikely that we exist at all. What would it be like if we lingered in that miracle once in a while?
We are made of stardust; it’s both poetic and true.
Science and poetry, wisdom and wonder.
The afterword highlights how stories can offer a form of homecoming:
To remember is not to retrieve something lost. It is to come home, again and again, to the mystery that has been here all along, patiently waiting for us to notice and to shine once more
Dear ones,
shine on.
Here are the links to find Ocean of Stars at Amazon or your favorite independent bookstore.
And, Ocean of Stars is also the name of a stunning image from the Vera Rubin Observatory, which can be seen in crystal clear resolution here (and in blurrier form below).


Last week I made one of my favorite sandwiches, tomato with lots of salt. Plain white bread, lightly toasted. A tiny swoosh of mayo.
As I chomped down with glee, a huge splurt of tomato seeds flew out, landing in dramatic splotches all down the front of my first-day-of-sweater-weather outfit. Oooo doggie, I was mad!
Scrubbing the stains, it occurred to me that within just a few weeks, I will be dreaming of fresh tomatoes. By the time the snow starts to pile up, I’d trade a hundred piles of laundry for my favorite sandwich.
Dear ones, may we welcome the tiny annoyances of the day – the tomato splurt, the crying child, the thorn-pricked thumb.
May we treasure the fleeting blessings contained within.

I was listening to an audiobook today while doing yardwork, half attentive and half in daydream. Through the mist, I heard the author casually note that there’s a big difference between being a nice guy and a good man.
Woah.
Both my daydreaming and my pruning paused on the spot, and now I’ve been pondering this nice/good distinction all afternoon.
Nice smiles at others. Good advocates for them.
Nice does enough. Good goes the extra mile.
Nice fades when out of view. Good needs no witness.
Nice keeps the peace. Good holds the line.
Dear ones, sometimes Good requires Nice to be sacrificed – a dreadful inconvenience.
When it does, which will we be?
** The book noted here was Matthew McConaughey’s Poems & Prayers, which was super as an audio book – but I plan to revisit in printed form, so that I can attend to every line.

A few weeks ago I was on an early morning flight where the a/c seemed stuck on full blast. I was rubbing my arms to keep warm, and figured a cup of tea would make things bearable.
About ten minutes later, the flight attendant came by with a large water bottle, and offered me the whole thing. I was about to ask for the tea instead, but it turned out he had seem me shivering and brought me a hot water bottle! It warmed my spirits as well as the rest of me, and kept me cozy all the way home.
Dear ones, what might we notice today?
How might we help?

Friends, I promise that these weekly reflections will not be an endless parade of memorials.
And yet. What a time.
Today I offer short quotes from two lives of wisdom and action – Wendell Berry and Gloria Steinem. It would be easy to think of these two in separate (or even opposite) categories, but both recognized the power of community. Both held clarity regarding where their own time was best spent. Both saw that our nanosecond news cycles run out of sync with our most important endeavors. And, I just realized this week, both advocated for joy as an act of deep and informed hope.
How lucky we are that all they touched is forever changed, as is true for each of us in our own lives.
How lucky we are that their written works can live on, unbound by time.
*****
Some of my favorite writing by these two includes:
Wendell Berry:
* Manifesto: The Mad Farmer’s Rebellion This poem hangs in a spot in my home where I can see it every day. Each line holds a sharp edged beauty and power.
* The Unsettling of America: Culture and Agriculture
* This Day: Sabbath Poems 1979-2012
Gloria Steinem:
* An Unexpected Life (forthcoming)